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by WickedOreo » August 14th, 2015, 9:50 am
I figured a follow-up post on my life was quite necessary, considering much has happened since my last foray into the forums.
About a month ago, I was working my job (as a fast food worker at Wendy's), when my stepmother recognized my name, and said that my half-sister was looking for me. I was quite shocked as I was trying to find the other side of my family, and there they were. We scheduled to spend some time together the next day, which I had off, and so we went to discussing our positions in life, and I found out that my half-sister is pregnant with her first child, so that makes me an aunt. However, she doesn't want to meet me now because she is worried I'll take her parents away from her, but she has a pretty strained relationship with them, given that she is almost the complete opposite personality of me and has experimented with drugs. My father was apparently not good to her when she was little, but I'll get back to that.
So, later, I treated my stepmother (who technically isn't married to my father anymore and hasn't been since before I was born, but I consider her family since she and my biological mother once got along at one point; it was quite an awkward relationship) to dinner and ice-cream, and we decided to see if my father was at his parents' house, and lo and behold, I met my father for the first time since I was born. He looks older because of his drinking and smoking problems in the past, but he seemed to be really happy to see me all grown up, and a lot different than what my mother had said he was. But, he wanted to form a relationship with me, which I happily accepted and have hung out with him a few times, just talking to him about my life here and it. It's a foreign emotion to form a parental bond, but I wish to cultivate it and see how different he is and if he is better off than where he was when he was with my mother.
College is starting in a couple of weeks, finally. I am changing my work schedule yet again so that I can work nights in order to attend the classes I signed up for. I'll be working towards an associate's in social sciences here to supplement a neuroscience degree when I transfer to the University of Massachusetts, Amherst. Currently, I'm signed up for 4 classes: Biology, Psychology, English, and Intermediate Algebra, so I'll be a full-time student going to classes Monday-Friday. As for tuition, it has been completely paid off through pell grants and scholarships, so I don't have to worry about paying bills (due to me living in a transitional housing program, I'm considered homeless by the state, so I have a lot of benefits being in my situation).
Overall, life in the past couple of months has been a big change for me, as the Zoloft and supplements I've been taking have done so much to help me, and being away from my mother has also done wonders for my mood. I can't believe where I am today, on top of my obligations for being a new adult and conquering my depression day by day.
Anyway, I am off to go play Magic: the Gathering at the local FNM tournament, or at least play some EDH with some folks that I know there.
-Oreo
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